I read this after my last post and it got me
thinking. There really can be a difference.

I remember a young teen I knew in high school. This girl
was so painfully shy that it was sad really. When the teacher called on her,
she’d blush and stammer and you just knew she wished the floor would swallow
her whole. And more than once, I saw gathering tears and trembling lips. She
never looked you in the eye but kept her gaze pointedly turned away.  I felt so sorry for her.

I’ve often wondered what happened to that poor girl.

As the years passed, I matured and started to understand
that many people were introverted by choice. It didn’t mean they were shy like
my earlier friend. Put them in a group situation and they didn’t curdle or
slink away with their faces hidden. But they really didn’t enjoy activities
where there were scads of people and where they needed to perform as an
interested listener or an interesting sharer.

Instead they preferred to spend time either alone or
with one or two chosen friends who didn’t tax their abilities to reveal themselves,
their ideas and goals. They felt much more comfortable inside their own heads,
thinking and imagining worlds of their own.

Strangely enough, I
married an introvert. And I soon learned that he didn’t need to be with others
to be happy. (Other than me of course!!) In his career, he worked with many
people and was always well-liked and usually the centre of a group. But when it
came time to relax and enjoy his days off, he didn’t require anyone else to
share those hours with. Self-sufficient, he taught me that people don’t always
need to be with others to feel complete.

So I guess when it comes to the introverted author,
other than the demands of promotion, the lifestyle would suit them extremely
well. Hidden away in their offices, spinning stories from their imagined inner
worlds and building plots and conflicts would be the perfect answer as a way to
make a living in a comfortable manner.

As we all know, people (like myself – extrovert and my guy – introvert) who are attracted to each
other are usually opposites. As a writer of romance, I have to be able to
understand both personality types in order to write realistic characters. While working on my new series Undercover FBI, I intend to look into personalities in a lot more detail.

How do you
create your character’s makeup?  Do you have rituals like making Myers-Briggs tests or reading the stars?